Henry's Digital Artwork

Henry's Mountains

Fighting Sharks (Morgan says this was all his but that she helped him a bit. I think "a bit" might be an understatement.)

Thanksgiving

I just wrote a note to my sister about our Thanksgiving dinner, and as I wrote, I realized that my only truly successful dish today was the stuffing.

We spent most of the morning preparing our family room for painting.  We filled cracks and holes and sanded.  Preparing Thanksgiving happened mostly during the breaks I took when my arms got tired.

The kids really wanted to use our china.  They decorated the table with the china and homemade name cards.

So here's the rundown of our Thanksgiving dinner.

• Turkey:  I only made a breast this year--since that's what we like anyway.  I used Pioneer Woman's brine recipe.   It was fine, but I think I like a simple salt and sugar brine just as much.  We expected the turkey to be roasted by 1:30.  It wasn't finished until 3:00.  
• Stuffing:  This I did right.  I used Stovetop, and added shredded apple.  Yum!
• Pie:  My hubby made our old fashioned pumpkin pie.  It was delicious.  I also made a chocolate mousse pie using pudding mix and whip cream. 

As you will see, things started to fall apart at some point:

• Potatoes:  Sticky, starchy, gooey.  Whatever you call that mess when you overcook them.  The texture was more like poi. 
• Corn:   Straight from a freezer bag into the microwave.
• Carrots:  I glazed carrots, but they weren't that great because I used mini carrots.
• Rolls:  I completely forgot the salt.  Henry tried to throw away the leftover rolls because he thought they were so bad.   Actually, I hadn't even planned to make homemade rolls.  I bought Sister Shubert's super yummy frozen rolls.  But Morgan begged, "Mom, you have to make homemade rolls!"
• Gravy:  Lumpy.  I didn't really care. 

So there you go.  It wasn't so great.  And yet we loved it.  And we loved each other.  And that's all that matters. 

Happy Thanksgiving!

Kindergarten!

It was a hard decision, whether to send Henry to kindergarten this year.  We debated for months about whether he was ready.  Whether he could benefit from one more year home.  Whether he would be too physically little for other kindergartners.  Whether he was too physically rough for other kindergartners. Whether he would be ready to sit still and behave as expected.  

Henry's preschool teacher suggested that he might benefit from one more year at preschool.  She said his attention span wasn't quite as long as the other children.  And he certainly didn't know his alphabet.  I wasn't too worried about that.  

With my first child, I pushed and pushed for her to know her alphabet, colors, numbers, etc., so she would look really smart when she started kindergarten.  And she was smart.  She read far above her level.  

My second child, Morgan, refused to learn her alphabet.  I tried to teach her, but she just stubbornly didn't want to learn.   When she went for her kindergarten evaluation, Morgan was picked out as possibly being a slow learner.  Boy was her teacher surprised when she shot ahead of the other kids and was reading on a second grade level by the end.  Once she decided she wanted to learn, she shot ahead.  

Part of that was just that she decided she wanted to learn.  Part was excellent teachers.  And a huge part was our regular use of this book:  

I can't recommend this book strongly enough.

We have always had a tradition of reading together at night.  Each small child in our family cuddles with me at night while we read, sometimes 45 minutes to an hour.  When they are interested, we work through this book.    

Morgan taught me a lot that kindergarten year.  She taught me about how much more kids learn when they are self-motivated rather than mom-motivated.  She taught me that she had her own time table, and that she would read when she wanted to.  I learned the great one liner:  "No problem."

When Jackie came along, though she did learn somewhat in preschool, I didn't try to teach her the alphabet.  I just enjoyed learning with her.  We visited museums, played in parks, read non-fiction--if it interested us.  She also went to school not knowing her alphabet well and learned quickly once she decided that was what she wanted. 

So here was Henry.  We agonized over whether to send him, and finally decided to give it a try.  

Henry was my first child to cry over going to school.  The morning of the kindergarten evaluation, we walked in with him already tearing up and hanging on my arm.   We were late because I had to coax him to the car.   I have always been good at just leaving my children and letting them learn to deal with being away from me, but this was the first time I felt torn.  Maybe because he is my last child.  

We filled out a few papers, and I sat and held him while he cried, and then the two teachers in the room with me encouraged me to leave, which I obediently did.  I noticed that one teacher, like a bouncer, escorted me out to the school lobby and kept me busy talking so that I wouldn't go back to check on him.  After a while, I could still hear his wails down the hall, and I decided to leave.  

I have worked enough with kids to know that they will stop crying, and usually faster if you at least act confident.  But Henry was pretty strong willed.  I got a phone call a couple hours later saying that he had only cried for 45 minutes.  !!45 minutes!!  That's a long time for a kindergartner if you ask me.  But I was glad he stopped, and I knew he would be fine. 

Henry had insisted that he didn't want to go on the bus.  As I sat filling out forms in the kindergarten room, I had to decide whether he was a car rider or a bus rider.  At the prodding of the teachers, I decided to make him go on the bus, as that was what I wanted to be the final result.  I imagined the teachers having to force him onto the bus and into a seat.  And I imagined him crying and trying to get off.  What a mess it was in my imagination. 

But when I met the bus that day, there came Henry down the steps, smiling ear to ear off the bus.  

"Henry, how was kindergarten?" I asked.

"Great, Mom,"  he exclaimed enthusiastically. 

"Henry, did you like the bus?"   

"Mom, I want to ride the bus tomorrow!"

So here we are a month later.  Any of you who might have been following my blog might understand why I was worried that he might get in trouble at school.   Henry has in the past, quite frankly, done some pretty crazy things at home.  But I guess that's over for now.  His teacher caught me at the open house, and said that he's the best kid in school, that she uses him as an example for the other kids.  My Henry?  What a surprise was that.  

Henry loves school.  He's thriving there.  And I'm glad I sent him.  

Kindergarten rocks.  

I Love You Mom

Each night before dinner, our family kneels down, and we say a family prayer together.  Well, everyone kneels except Henry.  Since he was big enough to climb onto my back, he has crawled on and lain on my back like a floppy teddy bear during the prayer.  I lean my forearms onto a kitchen chair to support his weight.

Normally, I expect our kids to be quiet during the prayer, but I just can't stop this one.  Every time we pray, Henry leans over to my ear in the middle of the prayer and whispers, "I love you Mommy, very much."  Sometimes he whispers, "I love you Mommy, and I don't ever want you to die."

First Tooth Lost

                                           

I sure do love this kid. . . . 

He came to me with this tooth hanging down perpendicular to his other teeth.  It was pretty annoying to him, so I took a picture, and then got a tissue and pulled it out.  

I learned this from the best.  I'll never forget attending a church activity with my Dad, who is a dentist.  I remember a small child running up to show him a loose teeth.  My Dad peered into the child's mouth, and before the child knew it, my Dad had pulled that loose tooth out.  In all fairness, I should point out this memory is from long ago . . . the accuracy may be questionable.  

I've blogged before about the tooth fairy's negligence in our household.  I don't know who was the tooth fairy this time around, but it wasn't me, and I don't think it was my husband.  I have some really kind older kids who have taken over tooth fairy duty.  Somehow a bunch of coins appeared under Henry's pillow.

Droops

So, this may give an unfortunate view into my occasionally strange sense of humor, but someone gave me these flowers.  I don't know what I did wrong, but the next day they looked like this (below.)  I thought it was funny enough that I took a picture.  I hope you can find some humor in it too.

I did, by the way, photoshop some crumbs off the table.

Fixing Bad Dreams

A wise mother and preschool teacher once told me to teach my children how to "fix" their bad dreams.   This has been a lifesaver over the years.  I even use it myself.  For example, if I dream a man is chasing me with a gun, I might then convince myself that the gun was really a marshmallow shooter, and that when the man gets closer, he's really my brother.  And then we giggle, sit down, and eat the yummy marshmallows together.

Early this morning, Jackie crawled into my bed.  "I need a cuddle, Mom," she said.  "I had a bad dream."

"Jackie, tell me your bad dream--let's fix it," I said. 

"Well, it went like this.  There were these kids who didn't like vegetables.  So they would sneak the vegetables in their socks, go outside, and bury them in the ground.  Eventually the vegetables grew up into a giant lima bean monster.  And he ate their parents!"  

At this point, Morgan was in the room and heard most of the story.  "All right, Jackie.  This is how you fix it," she declared calmly.  "The lima bean monster actually wanted to give the kids rides on his back.  Then his mommy called him home and he had to have dinner."

It turns out that a book from school inspired Jackie's dream. The story in the book is exactly like Jackie's dream, except that when the monster is just about to eat the parents, the children run up and eat him instead.  So they're eating their vegetables, and the parents are saved.  Win-win.

That seems like a pretty violent story to convince kids to eat their vegetables.  Move over Pinocchio.  Move over Little Red Riding Hood.  Here comes TALES OF THE VEGGIE MONSTER!

Some Beach Trip Pictures from this Summer

I think we've gone to the beach at least once each summer.  I can't remember a summer that we went to the beach more than once.   There's a reason for this.  I've had babies and toddlers in the house for 13 years.  13 YEARS!  And going to the beach with small children is kind of fun, but not nearly as fun as going with these older kids!  This was the first year that I really could enjoy being at the beach with them without worrying too much that someone was drowning, burning to a crisp, or eating sand.  

Part of the fun this year was that it was the first year we had a boogie board for each child.  And we went with friends.  I figured out this year that I could put a life jacket on Henry, and take him out.  We boogie boarded together with him under me.  My friend also watched him here and there while I went to boogie board alone.  

   

 

We went to the beach with some fun friends.

A few more Irene Pictures

All right, so you might think I'm proud of myself.  Sure am.  Here's a few more fun pictures taken by a nice man we did some work for.

Anika working hard pulling away branches.

I felled this tree.

The group that stayed until the end . . . we finally rolled out of town around 6:45 after working  all day.

This man was so grateful when we started on the three big trees in his yard.  

Can I pay you?  Nope.

I would be one happy woman if I could spend every day doing this.

Volunteers in cleanup campaign earn a ‘God bless’ | volunteers, campaign, knocked - Kinston Free Press

Volunteers in cleanup campaign earn a ‘God bless’ | volunteers, campaign, knocked - Kinston Free Press

Hurricane Irene and Mormon Helping Hands

Last week our stake leaders sent out an e-mail inviting stake members to participate in a service activity about an hour and a half away toward the coast.  They asked for "75 men or workers for each of the next two Saturdays. Approx 10 men per ward (14 yr old  and up youth from each ward and women are welcome if they so desire)."


I grew up in a small logging town in Oregon.  My dad was a dentist, but on the side we worked on the family tree farm, which was around 120 acres.  One summer, my sister and I spent the entire summer leaving early in the morning to go work on the farm  pruning trees with a chainsaw and a pole saw.    We did other things also--we had chickens.  I remember shoveling their poop.  My memory is that we worked hard as kids.   And the girls weren't treated any different from my brother.  I'm grateful for this. 


My husband gave me a call Wednesday morning.  "I know you'd like to go to this," he said.  "Would you like to take my place, and I'll stay with the kids?"  


Ooh--I jumped on that.  I was so excited.  But as the week went on, I became more concerned about going alone with the men.  Could I still work really hard?  Was I still strong enough to run the chainsaw?  Who would I ride with? 


Saturday morning, I still wasn't sure I was going to go.  I had decided I would go to the church and see if any other women had turned up.  And then I was going to see how I felt and decide.  


And then suddenly, blurry eyed, Anika stumbled into the bathroom.  She wanted to go.  Suddenly I had a perfect excuse to go and also a companion. 


It's kind of funny that I worried so much about crashing the men's party.  I'm not sure why.  Either way, I went.

As we drove into the town, we were surprised by the damage.  It seemed like every other yard had  large trees down.  We saw many power lines either hanging very low or on the ground.  Every house had a huge brush pile in front of it like this:

A power line is hanging very low on the left.  On the right are three big trees, which we cleared later.  Literally, every street I saw looked like this.  The town was a huge mess.  Many homes were damaged also.

We met first with about 200 other men and a few women at the church there, where we were given Mormon Helping Hands t-shirts and leather gloves.  We were also given work assignments around the area.  Our group was sent first to a park, where a bulldozer had pushed logs and brush into large piles.  Our job was to pull the piles apart and cut them into manageable pieces that could then be piled by the road where a contractor would chip the wood.  


After that, we headed to another park.  At this park, one tree had fallen on a picnic shelter.  After clearing a large tree, we started down the trail, clearing downed trees as we went.  At some points, you couldn't even see where the trail went.  I wondered if one area had been hit by a tornado.  It was a fun obstacle course for me to crash through the branches, go over and  under trees, to at some point climb on top of a horizontal tree that was about the height of my shoulders.  I wish someone had had a camera.  I have never seen such destruction.

The members of the church down there served  us lunch.  They served pork barbecue, coleslaw, and potato salad.  It's funny--I've never liked any of those things.  But as hard as I had worked, I didn't care.  I ate my entire plateful and was grateful.   The ladies who were serving us mentioned that many of them still were without power.  

This tree ruined the park bench. 

We didn't have a chainsaw large enough for this tree. 

Brush like this would go on and on.  Larger trees are of course mixed in there.  

After lunch we headed back to the park and finished clearing the trail.  I wish I had more pictures of the extent trail's damage, but I didn't want to miss any of the action.  these few pictures were taken by Anika.  She worked hard too though--she spent most of the day piling up branches and moving logs.  I sent her to get the camera a couple of times, just to make sure we had some pictures.   I also unfortunately don't have any pictures of her.  


After finishing the trails, we headed to where some other members of our ward were working to pull a bobcat out of a large root hole.  This tree had uprooted, leaving a muddy deep pool of water.  The bobcat had gotten a little too close and slipped in.  

Soon after we arrived, they got the bobcat out (I guess it had taken over an hour).  We sliced up the tree and then headed across the street to work on several trees there.  They were in the yard of a darling 90-year-old couple.  He came out with his walker and offered to pay us.  Of course we turned it down.  "Well, at least," he said, "let me take your picture so I can send it in for a newspaper article."  Hopefully I can get that picture and post it later. 

In the end, we started around 8:45 in the morning, and wrapped up at 6:45, then drove the hour and a half home.  I probably worked hard with that chainsaw for at least eight of those hours. I loved every minute.  There's something wonderful about working hard.  I was soaking wet with sweat all day--it was about 90 degrees and very humid.  I'm a little sore today, but it was a rewarding day yesterday.

We also came home to a surprise.  Matthew and the kids had cleaned the house.  

I'm so glad that my father expected us to work  hard and allowed us to have experiences that I don't think many girls are having.  At one point we came across a huge log straddling the trail about four feet high.  I called my Dad to get some advice on how to remove it safely.   He offered advice and then hung up before he heard me say, "Dad, thanks for teaching me how to use a chain saw."  I said it anyway.  

Just one more note:  I accomplished as much as any of the men out there.  But they were really cool about it, and many of them said so much to my husband today.  

Summer Flowers

I've never even thought about putting flowers in our garden, which I usually plant.  But this year my husband planted the garden, and he planted a couple types of sunflowers and wildflowers around it.  The flowers benefited the plants, as they attracted pollinating bees.  We also were delighted to see bright yellow canaries enjoying the seeds.  Here are some pictures of our flowers.

I love the bumblebees! This is the first time I've seen bumblebees in our yard since we moved in six years ago!

Giant sunflower--these were so fun to grow!  I wish I had a picture of the canaries that frequented them.

From a packet of "wildflower" seeds.

Another Lamp

When does it end?  These days, I don't want my kids to grow up any more (I used to dream of them growing up.)  But I do hope that some day my lamps can survive more than a few months.  I can't find it, but in a post a while back, I included pictures of a lot of lamps we had broken.  This one wasn't broken in rough play at all--this one was broken by Jackie trying to climb onto her father's lap and catching her foot on the cord.  I admit that I'm getting tired of lamps breaking. Will someone please design a childproof lamp for me?

  

Runaway Watermelon

For some reason our garden reminds me of the beanstalk--Jack's beanstalk, that is.  Our watermelon is OUT OF CONTROL!  I can't really figure out where in the world all the water is coming for that thing to grow all the watermelons it's growing (I think I saw 5). I don't water them at all.  Too bad the melons are seeded--next year maybe we'll grow seedless!  Supposedly you do it by planting the sterile seedless plants next to the seeded plants.  That explains why grocery stores still have seeded watermelons.  

The watermelon hiding among our bell peppers.

The plant wound through the tomatoes and peppers and grew this baby on the other side.

This is all on top of gravel!  I have no idea how it does it.  

All that said, I'm sure there must be some seasoned gardener out there cracking up that this would even surprise me.  I hope so.  I love strengthening people's stomach muscles.

On the Edge of Irene

We mostly missed Irene.

The kids and I decided as we drove around that we would categorize Irene by the number of trees we saw uprooted.  We found 2, thus we decided Irene was a Category 2 hurricane.

Here are some pictures.

Typical debris in our neighborhood, along with dead branches of all sizes.  

Thank goodness for a gasoline blower.  The whole yard looks like this.

The tree we're glad stayed strong. 

Another tree that doesn't give us warm fuzzies in a storm.

This one aims for the car, which we parked in the garage.  Below is the mosquito dunk in  the hole in the tree.
At some point this tree needs to come down. 

I added the new mosquito dunk when I found the little wrigglers  the  morning after the storm.

Sure glad this didn't hit our house.

In all seriousness, we're thankful to have missed the brunt of this storm,
and our prayers are with those who are dealing with physical injury or property damage.  

Flavorful Medicine

Henry has been having some unidentified mouth pain for more than a week now.  I'm not sure whether he has a tooth coming in or a long-lasting sore throat.

Either way, he makes a sound like a hissing opossum (I only know what that sound is because I ran into a possum in my garage once.)  If you have never heard one, feel free to find an example on youtube.   Then he asks for some ibuprofen.

Tonight I brought him a medicine cup with medicine made by a different company than usual.

"Mom, it's red," he observed.   Normally his medicine is a light purple color.  "What does it taste like?"

"Maybe strawberries," I guess, "but I'm not really sure."

Henry slowly takes a sip.  "It tastes like chicken nuggets.  And apples mixed together."

Hmmm . . .